Do you perform Gay Marriages? Of course we do! Metropolitan Community Churches have been doing Gay Marriages for over 30 years and continue to pray for the day when they will have equal recognition in the state and federal governments. We are happy to help you celebrate your love for one another regardless of such legal recognition because we know God recognizes our marriages. If marriages are formally recognized (again) in California we will help couples who have already wed in the church to re-new those commitments and to make the marriage "legal" to the government authorities.

When Marriages are Legalized in California, and it will happen again, then: To have a legal civil marriage you must present a marriage license. In San Mateo County this is available at the County Clerk-Recorders office, 555 County Center, First Floor, Redwood City, CA 94063. Even if it isn't legal it can be an act of social Justice to go and ask for your license anyway. It is recommended that couples fill out some of the paperwork in advance at www.smcare.org.

General Information

The ceremony: Every ceremony is created by the Clergy and participants, and is unique. It tells the story of your love and commitment. We do short, long, funny, serious, casual or dressy, in our worship space or in your space. We really are quite flexible. Faith: Most people who choose a church for their ceremony have some type of spiritual connection to the world, we are open to mixed faith couples, and will work with you to honor your perception of God, as you understand God, in your lives.

Church Rental*: Our Church rents space from College Heights UCC each Sunday and it is also available for weddings. This space is very sweet, with great views, and has capacity to do a reception in the same area with some planning. (1150 W. Hillsdale Blvd, San Mateo). The church space is suitable for up to 60 guests. The final pricing and agreement is between you and College Heights and a cleaning deposit may be required. The wedding party is responsible for set-up and clean-up. We are happy to do your ceremony in other locations.

Musician*: Our musician is very talented and is happy to help you select live music for your ceremony. If it is an in-house ceremony the rates range from $100.00 to 300.00 depending upon the amount of music and degree of preparation. If your wedding is in another facility the rates are higher due to travel and more preparation.

Clergy*: We have a number of clergy who may be available to help you with your wedding planning and ceremony. If it is an in-house ceremony our rates range from $250.00 - $500.00, dependent upon the size of the event and the length of the ceremony. Most average size ceremonies (20 - 60 people) are $300.00. If your ceremony is in another facility the rates may be higher, as well as couples needing any pre-marital counseling or multiple planning sessions. One planning session is included. The rates may be lower for those who are "renewing vows" in an abbreviated format.

How do we start? Contact our Pastor, Rev. Terri Echelbarger at revterri@peninsulamcc.org with the dates you are considering and to start a conversation about being married by MCC Clergy.

**If you have extenuating circumstances in your life and need to discuss the fees please let us know about your situation. There are no charges for Members of PMCC (at least 6 months) for ceremonies; it is a part of our covenant together.